Why Some Relationships Never Happen (and What We Can Do about It)
A 1.5h webinar where we bring light into the “running away” and “running into” dynamic which sometimes shows up between people who feel attracted to each other initially but then struggle creating a relationship.
A 1.5h webinar where we bring light into the “running away” and “running into” dynamic which sometimes shows up between people who feel attracted to each other initially but then struggle creating a relationship.
A 1.5h webinar where we bring light into the “running away” and “running into” dynamic which sometimes shows up between people who feel attracted to each other initially but then struggle creating a relationship.
If you have ever been in a situation where a relationship which started out all vibrant and beautiful got stuck in the first or second gear, you are probably aware that there is a subtle dynamic at work. At some point, quite unexpectedly, one starts to drift away, while the other becomes even more interested in being together. We can call that “running away” and “running into”.
We usually think this is the result of one falling out of love. But in my experience, this dynamic is not the consequence, but rather the cause of what is happening.
Two different views on closeness
When it comes to love and intimacy, we tend to fall in one of two categories:
We EITHER love the connection, the being together, the sharing, the merging with each other - we are connection lovers.
OR, while enjoying the togetherness, we value more the independence, the freedom, the living on our own terms - we are freedom lovers.
Life has a way of bringing us together in sometimes very juicy, very alive beginnings of a relationship. But then the clash between the two different views on closeness is almost inevitable. The freedom lovers feel suffocated, threatened in their independence so they start taking distance. This makes the connection lovers feel threatened in their desire for connection and they start pressuring for togetherness. This only makes the other one take even more distance.
This is how things start dragging on, we get lost in misunderstandings and ultimately one of the two breaks away or simply disappears.
What is this webinar about
In this event, I will share my understanding (and life examples) of these two patterns, as well as a possible way out of them. And consequently out of the stuckness, back into the easy and fulfilling flow of love we all deserve.
This is not a “quick fix” kind of approach, but rather one where we look at the root causes and work with that to find solutions in the present.
Headlines from what we will cover:
What was it in our life (and especially our childhood) that led us to be driven predominantly by our need for connection or by our need for individuality?
How is this showing up in our relationships today?
How we can use dating and relating to start balancing the 2 types of needs, which is a much better base for a relationship - and enables us to come out of the stuckness into the flow of love.
Details:
Day: 31st Oct
Time: 18.15 CET//19.15 EET (Romanian time)
Language: English
Zoom link details will be provided upon signing up.
This is for you if:
you notice such a pattern in your life or maybe you are currently in a relationship which feels stuck in its initial stages, with little chances of moving forward.
you simply are interested in learning about relationships in general.
you would like to raise your awareness about how your actions impact the others in your love relationships.
Structure of the session:
I will share insights into the topic for about 45 min and then invite you to a self-reflective exercise. We will end with a Q&A session.
Your input will be entirely voluntary, depending on whether you feel to ask or share something in the moment.
Looking forward to seeing you there,
Radha