A once-a-month free webinar on a Conscious Relating topic + Q&A
Open Thursdays
On a Thursday (approximately once a month), you are warmly invited to talk on a specific Conscious Relating topic. At the end of the call there will be space for a Q&A session.
The whole session should last 1h, but if the conversations are too exciting to be interrupted, we might go over. So it is a good idea to reserve 90 min for the event.
To get the zoom link for the call:
please fill in the form below;
within 24h you will receive the confirmation and the connection link.
I have one kind ask:
I would prefer it if you could have your camera on - it is much easier for me to speak on personal matters when I am able to feel the person I am talking to. However, it is not a condition for participation.
Next Date:
27 June 2024
Topic:
“Clear on Boundaries”
Time:
18.00 London time//19.00 Berlin time// 20.00 Bucharest time
Duration:
60-75 min
To book a place at the coming Open Thursday, please fill in the form.
Clear on Boundaries
Dear friends,
It is a great joy to invite you to this upcoming Open Thursday webinar!
It seems to me that a big part of our troubles in connections has to do with some confusion around boundaries.
CLEAR ON BOUNDARIES
In the simplest form, having boundaries means recognising the situations that require a “no” in our relationships, and being able to speak this "no".
Such situations include:
- when we are spoken to in an aggressive tone
- when someone’s repeatedly being late
- when we are asked for emotional support but we don’t have the energy or the bandwidth for this
- when we receive unsolicited advice
- when we are asked a question which feels too personal to us
etc.
Sometimes we do recognise these situations …
Sometimes we don’t.
And other times we feel that the rules change when a lover, friend, a date or a parent is involved.
When we get fuzzy about our boundaries, we pay an (often hidden) price:
* resentment builds up
* our partner/friend starts losing respect for us (and with respect, love goes too)
* we start avoiding or punishing the other
* we isolate ourselves, to avoid all the mess
* in an intimate relationship, the sex loses its spark.
Getting clear on boundaries felt like a revolution in my life.
Today I can see clearly that knowing our boundaries brings dignity to our relationships, a feeling of safety, a cleaner energy – and that, all that, is the only soil where connection and love can grow.
But beyond that, it builds a feeling of self-esteem, which only when we learn to set boundaries we realised we had lost on the way.
So I’m an advocate, and quite a passionate one.
Would you like to join me this coming Thursday?
If yes, just drop me a comment/message and I’ll send you the connection details.
Love,
Radha
